Monday Moment for Down syndrome - Can You Tell?

Over the last 4 years I have collected MANY poems and stories about Down syndrome and special needs in general. Since a lot of my readers have kids with special needs, I thought I would post one poem or story every Monday. Chances are you'll find one you've never heard along the way!

Note from the author, Becky Bowen:
We all know that whenever a baby is brought into this world, one of the first questions asked is, “Whom does the baby look like?” For parents of babies with Down syndrome, we also ask ourselves, “Can you tell?” And, for some, a child’s appearance often determines their intelligence and worth. Thank God, we know better.
While sharing recent photographs of our daughter, my friend often commented, “You can’t really tell.” Later, I began to wonder what this statement really implies. Does it mean that she is beautiful, even having Down syndrome? Does it mean her life will be easier? Does it mean she will be accepted? Does it make the Down syndrome disappear? My final thought was, “Does it really matter if you can tell?” What can you really tell just by looking at someone?
Although I am no poet, I was inspired by this thought to write Can You Tell? It truly is amazing how having a child with Down syndrome can bring out emotions and talents you never knew existed.


Can You Tell?
by Becky Bowen

Many times I wonder
As I go throughout the day,
Can you tell that I am special,
When you look my way?

Can you tell that I am different,
When you look into my eyes,
And see the tiny Brushfield spots,
That sparkle when I smile?

When you see my chubby little hands,
The line so deep and long,
Can you tell that I’m unique,
When I sign to you in song?

Can you tell by looking at my face,
So sweet and full of joy,
That I’m as precious as they come,
Mommy’s Little Boy?

And Daddy’s Little Girl
When she dances all around,
Can you tell by the way she twirls,
In her ballerina gown?

Can you tell by my expressions,
By the way my body moves,
By the little things that differ,
From the children known to you?

Can you tell that I’m a blessing,
Sent from up above,
To live here on this earth with you,
And fill your world with love?

Can you tell that I have feelings,
The same as all of you,
Sometimes I laugh, sometimes I cry,
My heart is human, too.

Can you tell that I am worthy?
Do you see me less than whole?
I hope you can appreciate,
My selfless perfect soul.

My love is unconditional,
Loyal ‘til the end.
Can you tell that I am capable,
Of being your best friend?

Can you tell that just like other kids,
I love to run and play.
But, at times I need to do these things,
In my special way.

Don’t judge from my appearance,
There are differences, it’s true.
But, when you really think of it,
Can you tell I’m just like you?

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