Friday, July 30, 2010

Q&A #152

no 6 yr old needs an ipod touch! do i hear spoiled for your brats.
First off, thanks for having the guts to leave your name ;). Second, actually, the iPod Touch has proven to be very beneficial for children with Special Needs. There is a never-ending list of educational apps out there that has helped Kennedy learn to read, do math, and even write. She shares it with her 3 year old brother who has learned his colors, shapes, letters and numbers from it. It has apps that are helping Kellsey learn to speak and one day she will benefit from all the other apps that Kennedy and Keeghan use right now as well. For us, this was a much better fit than a different handheld game system, like a Nintendo Ds, which may be cheaper but it's less educational and once you start having to buy games it really adds up. Also, with the Touch, you don't have to worry about losing game cartridges and it saves us from covering our house with countless flashcards. It's small, portable, and works great when you're in waiting rooms and/or the car as much as we are. I know many children with Down syndrome and other disabilities much younger than age 6 who have their own iPod Touch, and I'm pretty sure that doesn't make them spoiled, or brats. Thanks for your concern though. :)

Since she has to get blood work anyway, you could always ask them to check her titers. We have them checked before we get any vaccinations. In our case, they haven't needed any since they were two. They already had high enough levels. So we have skipped how many vaccinations that we would have otherwise done? They just order the blood work before our well child check, then if they need any they can do it while we are there...so we don't have to have two appointments.
I realize vaccines are a highly controversial topic... In order for us to stay at our pediatrician's office, we must vaccinate our children according to the government recommendations. We are not allowed to skip or delay any vaccines (though Kennedy's were delayed because of chemo, but that was different). The titer idea is a good one though, maybe someone else can use it where they are. :)

Q from me, scary thought where is Kellsey going to school? same as Kennedy was?
Kellsey is going to a private preschool outside the school system, same as Kennedy did. There are special education preschool classes in the district, some of which are very good. I intended for Kennedy to go there when she was in preschool, but ironically, we were told she tested too high. (You can read more about that right here.) So anyway, with the need for Kellsey to be in school full day, she is going to a private preschool... she is surrounded by typical peers who will hopefully spur her development. She is happy. She is included. At least for right now.

Wow. This brought tears to my eyes. I have a 25 year old with Ds and I expect she feels like this quite often. It is so true, there are many things she CAN do by herself, but makes me crazy nervous! That sentence "I don't have Down Syndrome all the time" will always stay with me. Thank you for posting this. I think it's going to change the way I continue to raise my daughter.
And now YOU brought tears to MY eyes! :) Thanks for a glimpse into the future! :)

Absolutely!! And we've got some great races going on right now in TN. Ya know, I knew 100% who I was going to vote for in the governors race until I watched their debate and now...two weeks later I am still clueless so I have not early voted yet! Ya think I could let the fact that Haslam reads your tweets swing my vote?? lol He must be ok if he follows the Special Ks...:)
haha! Sure thing!! :) I've been talking to lots of people on his campaign! He's been up here in Clarksville a lot, I wish I could meet him! Not meant to be though, so far! They did send me some really cool graphics though to play with and a t-shirt! I need to do something with the images! Good luck deciding on who to vote for! :)

She needs her own camera to document her time ;).
She has one. She got it for her birthday. :) I'm sure she'll come back with lots of fun pictures!

P.S. In that second to last picture, Kassidy looks SO small!! Is she the youngest one there?
Hmm I don't think she was, though she may have been close! They let kids going into 4th grade and up attend, so there possibly could have been kids one year younger than her going. She's just short... like her parents! ;)

23 comments:

Lisa said...

Spoiled? Seriously? Kennedy a Brat....Not a Chance! We got one for Mara when she turned 5 for all of the same reasons Renee!

Kim said...

Why do people feel the need to be so nasty? I just don't understand it. Yes everyone has the right to their own views and feelings, but if you don't like what you are reading, don't read it....Both of my kids have Ipod Touches - are they spoiled brats? No. Sorry Renee but this just struck a nerve with me, on the last 3 blogs that I have read today there has been negative comments made by readers and I just don't get it. Why do they read? Obviously they have nothing better to do. Very sad.

BobbyCarol said...

Some people have absolutely no idea how to keep their negative opinions to themselves. We got a LOT of flack about getting an iPod Touch for Ryan, who is 6. Most of the flack, I found, came from people who either knew nothing about the technology (ie, grandparents who don't or barely use a computer or a cell phone, much less an ipod and relating 'ipod' to just music--which I've pointed out that even if it WAS just for music, I had a walkman when I was 5 so what's the difference? LMAO!) or wouldn't spend the money to give their kids one. It was almost like they were making excuses why kids shouldn't have one or something. I've since touted all the benefits of it enough on Facebook and in our social circle and with our relatives that they have all quit giving us flack. That little thing is a LIFE saver in doctors' offices, in the car, and in restaurants, especially....the kid that refuses to eat gets bored REALLY easily, obviously. LOVE that thing so much!

Tracy said...

I guess Rachel is a spoiled brat too! She is six an has her on iPad. We put all the free kindergarten apps on it that you recomended and she loves the flashcards. We also added a communication app to it, but she has not been interested in that yet.

Hevel said...

Hm, a 6-year-old might not need an iPod touch, but then neither do I need one!

Actually I love that there are communication tools for iPod Touch / iPad, that the speech challenged can use, too.

Janet said...

concerning the iTouch -- the iPad is showing that it can be even more beneficial. The larger size makes a HUGE difference. I will probably be getting one for my 7-year-old w/ autism (completely non-verbal). Big bucks, yes - but cheap when compared to other augmentive communication devices. I can hardly wait for him to be able to show me (and the world!) how smart he really is.

Casey (@ Ever-Changing Life) said...

Don't you just love the people who get on blogs and say things they would never say in real life? It just makes me wonder what sort of shape their heart is in. You explained your IPod reasoning very nicely, although you should never have to. You are the parent, and they are an internet troll! I would also prefer a device like that to a DS! I can't tell you how many of my students had DSs and even cell phones!

Ashley said...

I just missed the Q&A. Go figure! ;) But, for next time:

Is that a pillow I see in Kassidy's hands (in the camp photos)? I, like Kass, HAVE to have my own pillow with me everywhere I go! Nothing like sleeping with something from home.. away from home!

Also, If you don't mind me asking, where is Kass camping at in KY? I ask because I live in a KY myself and nearby my home we have a huge camp area that many church youth programs use! Just curious if there is a special K in town. :) Not trying to sound like some crazy stalker!! Lol


Lastly, I guess my kiddo is a "spoiled brat" too. Lol, In all honesty though, i'm glad you shared that info. My baby doesn't have a special need, however those cheap little apps do really help. She has learned so much already!! I think most people see the negatives with children having IPods at such a young age, however when they are monitored and used correctly, I think they are an excellent learning tool for any child. Like you and Frank, my husband and I monitor everything that our little girl has on hers and we are the only ones who download/purchase anything that is installed on it.

Christie said...

In response to the first question, my three year old has an Itouch and it has helped her learn colors, letters, etc. Definitely a great investment!!!

my family said...

dont you just love opinions of people who dont know what they are talking about and then they dont have the nerve to leave a name...ugh!some people

Breanne said...

My two year old goddaughter has an iPod touch. She has a sensory disorder and the apps she has helps her process. Clearly someone doesn't have children. ;)

Following HIM said...

SERIOUSLY, someone told you no ipod touch?!?! I have found it VERY beneficial in special education and let my regular ed kids use it as a reward. Granted, I have an Iphone. But kids love it. Plus there are so many apps for education. I would recommend one.
~Elyse

*Tasha* said...

Drat, I missed a Q&A--- I was wondering what happened to that Reece's Rainbow girl who lost parents who wanted to adopt her and then it happened AGAIN to her... I can't remember the name! But I do remember she was nearly 5 and in high danger?

Anonymous said...

Hmm... I work with autistic children and one with DS. I bought myself an ipad for taking to work and you would just not believe the improvement in the kids. Technology is there for us to use and if we don't then that's when I believe we're 'spoiling' kids... spoiling an opportunity for them to reach new hieghts! There's always a negative nancy in every bucnh-often green with envy!

Elizabeth

Heather said...

Renee,I know you already know this but you no one an explanation ... seriously,what is wrong with people???

Anonymous said...

Renee,
Some people can be such nasty people. Sounds like they are jealous if u ask me. My daughters so not have Ipods, but they have laptops, ds, psp, gameboys, leaspsters, and so on and so on. I would let this person bother me. Renee u r a good mother!!
Hugs
Amy

Shari said...

I know you like your pediatrician, but any doctor who says you HAVE to do something to remain their patient makes me question them. Our ped has let us do whatever we want with vaccinations. Curtis has not had his last set of them and never will.

Hevel said...

@Kim
At times I have voiced my disagreement on blogs and people have done likewise on my blog. It's part of going public. However, this can be done with your name, politely, or trollishly.

Anonymous said...

Correction from Amy.. I wouldnt let this bother me

♥Lisa♥ @ FinalScore:Boys3Girls2 said...

once again you answer sooo much nicer than i would have, lol!!!!!!!!!

there you go again, being an overly-involved mom. :)

Tara said...

Personally, I can't wait to get one for Eon and he's only 18mos-old! Dh has a touch screen phone with a toddler lock. Eon has become an expert at drawing on it and making music. Now, he picks up my boring phone, tries to use a touch screen it does NOT have and throws it! LOL! I can see how it will be a great asset.

Kathleen said...

I have two adopted children with special needs. I hadn't really thought about getting an ipod touch, but your suggestion makes a lot of sense to me. Now that I read the comments about the ipad, that sounds good too. Better start saving my money!

Anonymous said...

you inspired me...i bought another ipod touch today so my 4 and 7 year olds no longer have to share. :)

brook :)